Gado-gado

The closer it is to Jitters & Flutters, the more dramatic our problems become. The more fights we encounter - sometimes over minuscule issues that can sound ridiculous if I were to share them here. I know I've been talking A LOT about arguments lately but that's the reality, that most of my ex-BTBs-now-wives forewarned me back when I got engaged.

Sometimes we'd sulk over it for a few days, or just tell each other off and get on with wedding errands that's reaching its crescendo in just about 50 more days. I don't handle fights very well because even after I voice out my annoyance, I'd still choose to shut down (aka walk in front, leaving him far behind). Usually R will just let me mellow down but sometimes he would surprise me by telling me firmly but nicely that he doesnt like me to act in this or that way. I actually like lor his abang-abang way. Cos it doesnt hurt my feelings but instead makes me feel guilty that I'd abused my poor R haha! 

Can I say that I'm so glad he's the first child in his family because he's so abang-abang that he always gives in to me (last child syndrome) hehe. I don't know if it's my job that's setting my mood off these days.

Anyhoots, R helped collect my cards from The Card Maison earlier. I'm sorry I'm not particularly loving the service they provided me all these while. But yeah it's here, Dad! Kids, get ready to receive cards from your mailboxes!!!